Yes, a baby shower can definitely be coed! In recent years, coed baby showers, also known as “Jack and Jill” showers, have become increasingly popular. These inclusive celebrations allow both men and women to participate in the festivities, making the event more inclusive and fun for everyone involved. Here are some considerations and ideas for planning a successful coed baby shower:

Benefits of a Coed Baby Shower

1. Inclusivity:
   • Inviting both men and women ensures that everyone who is important to the parents-to-be can celebrate together.
2. Shared Experience:
   • Both parents, as well as their friends and family, can share in the excitement and joy of the upcoming arrival.
3. Variety of Activities:
   • Coed showers often have a broader range of activities and games that appeal to all guests.

Planning a Coed Baby Shower

1. Invitations:

• Wording: Make it clear that the shower is coed. Use inclusive language like “Join us for a baby shower honoring [Parents’ Names].”
• Design: Choose neutral or themed designs that appeal to both genders.

2. Venue:

• Space: Select a venue that comfortably accommodates a mixed group, such as a home with a spacious living area, a park, or a community hall.

3. Decorations:

• Theme: Pick a theme that appeals to both men and women, such as a favorite book, sports team, or a general baby theme like “Baby Safari” or “Under the Sea.”
• Colors: Use a mix of colors rather than traditional pink or blue. Neutral colors, greens, yellows, and pastels work well.

4. Food and Drinks:

• Variety: Offer a range of appetizers, finger foods, and snacks that cater to diverse tastes. Consider including both savory and sweet options.
• Drinks: Provide non-alcoholic options like mocktails, lemonade, and iced tea, as well as alcoholic beverages like beer, wine, and cocktails if appropriate.

5. Games and Activities:

• Inclusive Games: Choose games that are fun for both men and women. Examples include:
  • Baby-themed trivia
  • Diaper-changing races using dolls
  • “Guess the Baby Food” tasting game
  • Baby photo guessing game (guests bring baby photos of themselves)
• Interactive Activities: Consider setting up a DIY onesie decorating station or a baby advice card station where guests can leave advice for the parents-to-be.

6. Gifts:

• Registry: Encourage the parents-to-be to create a registry with a variety of items that both they and the baby will need. This helps guests choose gifts that are useful and appreciated.
• Group Gifts: Consider organizing group gifts for larger items, making it easier for guests to contribute to bigger purchases like strollers or cribs.

7. Entertainment:

• Music: Create a playlist with a mix of genres that appeal to everyone. Live music or a DJ can also add a fun element to the party.
• Activities: Set up areas for different activities, such as a photo booth with props, outdoor games like cornhole or bocce ball, or a lounge area for mingling.

Example Coed Baby Shower Itinerary

Welcome and Mingling (30 minutes):

• Guests arrive, drop off gifts, and grab a drink.

Icebreaker Game (20 minutes):

• Play a quick, fun game to get everyone acquainted.

Food and Socializing (45 minutes):

• Serve a variety of appetizers and drinks while guests mingle.

Main Games and Activities (60 minutes):

• Organize a few inclusive games and activities.

Gift Opening (30 minutes):

• Parents-to-be open gifts with everyone gathered around.

Closing and Thank You (15 minutes):

• Parents-to-be thank guests, and everyone enjoys any remaining food and drinks.

By considering these aspects, you can plan a coed baby shower that is enjoyable and memorable for all guests, ensuring that everyone feels included in the celebration of the new arrival.